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“Different gay men find different things erotic,” Bannon says. Perhaps the natural evolution would be for the male-only spaces to go private as well, returning back to the underground. According to Bannon, the scene is already balkanizing, with gay kinksters splitting off into their own kinky subsets, be it the rubber boys or pups who are doing their own thing, sometimes publicly but privately, too. As identity politics continues to play a crucial role in queer discourse, it’s not unreasonable to think that in the future public spaces exclusively geared towards gay leather sexuality will fade.
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She claims that most women’s parties include trans women, woman identified people, and people with women’s histories. Patty explains that she doesn’t have a problem with men-only spaces as long as they include all men sadly, many do exclude trans guys. Is there something toxic about my man-fetish, and gay male leather sexuality at large?
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However, in the current moment where masculinity is being called out as a cult on morning TV and where it has contributed to actual terror in the so-called “incel rebellion” running amok, it feels necessary to examine these temples of manhood with sober eyes. I realize how that sounds, but for me, too much mixed company would interrupt this Tom of Finland fantasy world that I’ve come to appreciate. Cruising under those circumstances brings out my more primitive self, heightening my senses and sexuality in a way that’s uniquely exciting. I wouldn’t be bothered if there were some women there, but to be honest, too many would be a buzzkill. I don’t think of myself as macho per se, but being at a gay leather party full of hairy guys with big biceps and guts, the air dripping with man-sweat, does something to me. This post is part of Outward, Slate’s home for coverage of LGBTQ life, thought, and culture.